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maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:59:54 EST 
maiyannah
@sim @moonman @horridula There is definitely an aspect of trying to appeal to social groups to the behaviour given how he tried to ingratiate himself with me when Mikael couldn't help him (and now goes back to Mikael now since I blocked him over his horrendous attitude towards my wife), but at the same time, they wouldn't have to be so compliant to external groups if… -
Frau Maiya (maiya)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:41:17 EST 
Frau Maiya
So, if you absolutely must have an enemy, if you need validation at the expense of me, by all means, let us dance that dance of death, but do not act surprised when I treat you just as poorly as I perceive you treat me. -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:52:02 EST
maiyannah
@sim @purplehippo The need for control is the central locus of their validation behaviour. They need to be seen "doing something" about The Outgroup. -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:50:57 EST
maiyannah
@moonman @sim Nothing you can do can make someone determined to do something stop doing something, anyways in most cases. -
馬鹿野狐(ばかやこ)✔ (takeshitakenji)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:44:39 EST 
馬鹿野狐(ばかやこ)✔
Reasoning with someone who left for Gab because he couldn't take it isn't worth it. -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:49:51 EST
maiyannah
@horridula @moonman @sim It's less "be so involved" per se - you can talk all you want (I'm the most active user on my own instance by far lol) - but he basically just goes whereever the loudest opinions are. The first thing I learned in psychology is most of the things actually most beneficial to people suffering disorders are things they will tell you they hate, w… -
Frau Maiya (maiya)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:39:42 EST
Frau Maiya
There is no experience you could visit on me from behind a computer screen that is not utterly and completely eclipsed by what I have experienced in that "real life" thing. -
Frau Maiya (maiya)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:38:47 EST
Frau Maiya
The difference between myself and the other victims of these groups is they will dehumanise them, they will break, and they will have their victory and gloat over them. I have been through hardships these people can never imagine and probably will never be able to conceive of. I'm made of sterner stuff. Let me be your subhuman. Stomp on me, tread on me, call me all those… -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:34:28 EST
maiyannah
@sim @purplehippo You ever notice that when "we" do it, it is unforgivable "toxic" "hostility" and when they do it, it's "just" "a joke"?
Both contexts to the text are possible, but neither extreme happens 100% of the time with either group as would be said. -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:29:43 EST
maiyannah
@purplehippo @sim The irony of the thin-skinned allegation is they are the ones that feel the compulsive need to continually interject in the conversations of others to be offended, when a more self-confident person would just leave well enough alone, because you realize you're not going to affect any change. This is a lot of the reason that I don't feel a need to e… -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:18:42 EST
maiyannah
@sim @verius Verius and I have discussed in the past algorithmic ways to try to defeat group blocklists, but I don't think there's a way we can do this and not at the same time hurt the individual freedom of association. It's a tough thing to consider and unless someone has some bright idea it's a pandora's box I'd rather not open. -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:13:44 EST
maiyannah
@sim Honestly, I'd be happy if they do defederate, because it's the happiest scenario for all involved: they no longer have to deal with "problematic" and "hateful" "hostile" people like us, and we no longer have to deal with the constant deluge of harassment they subject us to and then project onto us. You know, I generally disagree with DARVO in many cases it's us… -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:03:31 EST
maiyannah
T_T -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:03:28 EST
maiyannah
Switzerland AKA SPC broke -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 07:02:07 EST
maiyannah
I wear your hatred like I would a comfortable and familiar jacket, because it is how I disempower it so it is meaningless to me and doesn't hurt. Pretty much anyone who was trough the bad years for and in the gay community knows exactly what I mean. -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 06:58:45 EST
maiyannah
SPC is running real slow for me :c -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 06:48:00 EST
maiyannah
@purplehippo I suggest dealing with it the scottish way and either invading their castle and beheading their king, drinking lots of whisky until you forget about it, or using sticks to hit heads into their lawn.
How the latter turned into Golf, I'm still not sure. I'm a hipster and prefer the older version though. -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 06:44:18 EST
maiyannah
@takeshitakenji @dogjaw (Though its more like "This one pushed back~! OMG~! She's DANGEROUS!)
I'm not even making that up either. -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 06:43:52 EST
maiyannah
@takeshitakenji @shpuld It had the desired effect on Mastodon tho https://community.highlandarrow.com/attachment/85110 -
maiyannah (maiyannah)'s status on Friday, 25-Nov-2016 06:39:29 EST
maiyannah
@takeshitakenji @dogjaw I'm the one having to deal with these people the most so far, I guess because I have Opinions.
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