Received a 'thank you' text from #GS2 for his (delayed) birthday card + $25 visa gift card. Not sure whether my daughter-in-law has talked with her oldest ( #GS1 ) yet to inform him that _his_ birthday card + gift card came to her. He's the dutiful one, so I was concerned that sending a gift card directly to him would lead to "we need your $25 to help with the bills". I know …