No, it isn't "toxic masculinity". It's that they've spent their lives working and sacrificing to keep a roof over their families' heads and food on the table, ignoring their own needs. In many cases, their family members don't even care. They just demand more.
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(Note: Just by the OP's wording, I know they don't really care and would not accept this insight, though it is responsive to their question.)
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