http://status.hackerposse.com/url/20004 ( Trying not to get in the middle of XJ9's conversation there. ) Saying it the way the OP said is almost guaranteed to hostilize people. But OTOH, it does have to be said in some way--plenty of FOSS people have tried to explain these things to their normie IRL contacts, but those contacts are not willing to hear or consider it--the proble…