When that one brother texts me, I know it means that he wants something (always for someone else). Immediately makes me very tense. Inside, I want to say "What do you want this time?"

Now he's texting to ask me to help his friend move in a few days.

I realize he's known this guy for over 35 years, but I feel like it would not be acceptable if I texted him to help one of my friends move.