Lastly, trying to solve the wrong thing is easy when you come from a certain paradigm but you're unaware of the entire larger world/perspective. This is probably the most satisfying problem solving around, when you learn something completely new and can see the world in someone else's eyes. Sometimes it doesn't immediately "click", but often it sort of grows on you. Politicians tend to fail spectacularly in this area.

Example: Using centralised asocial media "because everyone else are there" but still complaining that "noone sees/interacts with me" (because it's just a huge, explicitly-made-addictive firehose - with filters on top).

The solution however is not to shout louder in the already too crowded place, but rather to grow something else outside of the walled garden, where ideas and encouragement can be seen and nurtured.