@nerthos The social compact is an important thing to enforce.  Ideally, we shouldn't have to enforce it often, but problems arise when people challenge it.  Sometimes this challenge is valid, such as in asserting freedom of speech or the freedom of sexual orientation, but much more often lately, people try to use that social compact as a means to shame people into making the particular moral decisions they feel are best in their personal lives.

Personal life should be private and the social compact need not apply there.  That's the big sticking point for these people.  They have no distinction of a private life and furthermore they do not desire one because it means giving up that control.