@moonman @delores A person should be able to identify however they wish as long as the means by which they do so are not onerous to the people involved.  This is why I support people identifying as either gender but tend to have reservations about the genderfluid 890543934 different genders stuff.  There's a mental load associated with remembering non-standard pronouns that results in a cognitive tax that most people just aren't going to be willing to pay unless they are particularly invested in you.