I saw some people on twitter talking about how going on the fediverse out of mastodon or gab.ai needs a thick skin and ... no, not really.  You might try not calling everyone you run into a bigot though, that tends to get negative, hostile reactions.  The whole thing a lot of mastodon has with calling everyone "nazis" is not at all endearing and I've had no compunctions about banning people that have been repeatedly starting fights that way from my server.  Gab.ai isn't much better, they just substitute "nazi" with "SJW".