@sim @moonman There's a moderate position to be found here. Listening to others is important because their perspectives may lead you to good ideas you didn't have before (a lot of postActiv's changes are because of feedback!)
The important thing though is YOU should be running the show, not them. Whether that you is a team of developers that are the software team, or just a single person or couple of people like is the case for postActiv (there's four people incl myself who have contributed thusfar), you should be able to say "No", and more importantly, sometimes you NEED to say "No"