@hybotics I get like that when things brush up against my PTSD so while it's for a different reason I can understand entirely.  I can be forgiving (at least in retrospect I suppose) of someone who unintentionally and unknowingly does something that does so, since I can't expect everyone I interact with to even know I have PTSD let alone what triggers it, but people whom are intentionally nasty I have no such patience with, and it sounds like your landlord is intentionally pushing your buttons from what you say.