I was a little worried that # would feel left out because I'm unlikely to be able to send him a # or the server & rack for his birthday. Both # and # got a NAS for their birthdays. During yesterday's videochat with 2nd son, I mentioned it and he said "you won't find out whether he takes it badly until you tell him, but I'm sure he will understand". So last night, I sent a message.

This morning I received a reply:
"No worries about the NAS or server ... don't let yourself stress out about that!"

Breathing a sigh of relief.